What Men Want

Dear "It" Girl,

Don't rack your brain trying to figure out what men want, because it is really quite simple! Sure, I know the inside scoop from my five years spent working in the dating industry, but the average Jane can figure it out after a relationship or two.

To put it really simply, what men actually want can be summed up in three magic words: hot best friend.

Since I like threes, I'll give you three tips to be the best friend (and girlfriend!) he's ever had.

The following makes Jack a very happy man:

1.Keep him sexually occupied. If he's going to commit to you, he can't feel like he's missing out on other women. Thankfully, you do not need to be a porn star to keep a man satisfied in the sack. A little technique and a lot of enthusiasm can go a long way.

2. Have fun with the guy. You should be able to make him smile with the snap of a finger. Keep your dates light, fun, and drama free and he'll keep coming back for more.

3. Stand by your man. You need to be his friend and confidant. Show him you support him and you'll be the first he calls with news good or bad. Love him for who he is and not for the money, the cars, or the clothes. Be there when he needs a hug.

Seriously, it's as simple as that!

Love, Rachel Russo, MS, MFT