A NJ Speed dating event: Can new boys + new lip gloss = Your Match?

Dear "It" Girl,

If you are serious about meeting Mr. Right, you should consider diverse options for attracting him into your life. Perhaps, you've thought about speed dating and wondered if it was really a great way to meet someone date worthy. The old fashioned among us may think it is a crazy idea to determine someone's date-ability after three minutes of conversation. However, research shows that people can determine feelings of romantic attraction to someone in even less time than that.

According to Wikipedia, speed dating is defined as "a formalized matchmaking process or dating system whose purpose is to encourage new people to meet a large number of new people." You probably saw my favorite four-some speed dating (in glitz and glamour!) on Sex & The City. Could it work for you? Perhaps. It is worth a try!

Master Matchmakers, the company in which I work as a Matchmaker and Relationship Coach, is holding a speed dating event at the lovely W Hotel in Hoboken, NJ on January 29, 2010. If you are interested in learning more and registering for the event, take a look at the video at http://www.purplelabnyc.com/speeddating/. You will learn lots more there, but all you really need to know is that this event involves new boys and new lip gloss in a very classy setting- complete with Cosmos that would make Carrie Bradshaw jealous! ( And a very cool 3D aphrodisiac purple lip gloss to be exact!) Is this not every "It" girls dream night?! =)

If you plan on giving speed dating a whirl, do your very best to be sure that you have everything in place for making the best first impression. Men will make snap decisions as to whether you are hot or not, so make sure you look your very best. Also be aware of your body language; you must seem open and friendly. (No crossing arms!) Sound confident and epitomize fun. ( Boys (like girls!) just want to have fun! Those at these events are also looking for relationships.) Speed dating provides the setting for one of those they- may –not- remember –what- you- said-, but- they'll- remember- how –you-made- them- feel -instances. If the men are attracted to you and can have fun with you in three minutes, they'll believe they can have fun in three hours.

In 2010, speed dating could be a perfectly fine and time efficient way to meet your match!

Love, Rachel Russo, MS, MFT