3 Steps to Finding the (Next) Love of Your Life Before the (Next) Feb 14th

Dear "It" Girl,

Sorry, it's too late to find your beau in time for this years' Vday-unless you believe in miracles-and your Universe works really quickly. Now, February 14^, 2011-that is doable! If you have a year to plan, you have plenty of time to launch at an all-out campaign in the name of love. In addition to telling everyone you know that you are single and looking, consider my suggestions on how to find a great relationship by approaching finding a man in the same fashion as you would for launching a career.

1. Treat it like you'd treat a job search. If you were applying for a job, you'd try to determine which type of position you'd be best for by identifying your qualifications and interests. Do the same for your qualifications to be somebody's-girlfriend. Ask yourself what you bring to the table in a long term relationship.
   
2. In further applying with the job search technique, figure out what kind of man would most float your boat. You need to know what you are looking for to increase your chances of finding it.
   
3. After marketing the heck out of yourself in resumes/cover letters or online dating profiles/off-line makeovers, you will meet with some potential people who can fulfill your need. Be prepared and confident by knowing what you can about this job (person) and knowing your strengths and weaknesses. Don't forget to smile!
   

Love, Rachel Russo, MS, MFT